i've been thinking a lot recently, a little too much maybe.
we often complain how this person can't be like that person and comparing one another when we don't evenreally know the other person! we always have the tedency of taking things and people for granted. guess we really don't know what we've got till its gone. although it's never too late to realise and appreciate the person again, that period will surely hurt one another.
i know we should let go and let god, as my title states. it's tough but when it's done, you feel so relieved you've done it and maybe you feel a tad better. when people say try being in the other person's shoes, many dont't mean it, they don't even try. they just assumed. one of the worst thing to do is to assume, because most of the times, people always assume wrongly.
the feeling of feeling uncomfortable, stranger-like and akward with someone when it was actually comfortable and close feels rather strange. but what if that's actually what they want? what if they are enjoying it and liking it? anyway, people change with time but if they change for the good, great. but what if they change not for the good, yet thinks its better? you can't do much except see how it goes and wait till the person actually says something about it, whether liking it or not. sometimes silence is a form of acceptance, and in my case, its a form of : you want it this way, you will get it this way.
well, all these are just thoughts in general, nothing personal. iim not emo or anything, just wanted to write my thoughts down so i can re-read it in future. its really tough typing on my bb ( yes, finally! got it on my birthday :) ) cause i can't use caps and its so small!
quote of the day: there are no unimportant people in the body of christ.
there are many things in life which money can buy,
and there's even more things money can't buy. some include :
respect, trust and manners.
hopefully people will realise it someday.
